Here’s my 2-decades of career counseling experience tip: Stay and use your outside life to explore and express your lone wolf tendencies. This balance fosters freedom and prevents your internal discord. Don’t expect your employer to satisfy all your needs. We tend to skew toward idealism in our careers. This issue fosters disillusionment and resentment over and over again. You’re a problem solver so the focus is on solving for balance rather than all-or-nothing outcomes. There’s my 2 cents. 😁